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Domestic Violence


From Lieberman is proposing a Lieberman offers domestic violence plan.

This plan is directed toward women and children, but we must remember that men are abused too.

And yes, we still need legislation about this issue, but the bigger issue remains with us. What is it about the way we live, the way we raise our children, that allows this domestic violence to occur?

If he, if she, hurts you, physically or verbally, sorry, that is not love. Love is kind. Get help.

National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Battered Men.

What Men Can Do to Stop Domestic Violence.

Women Against Domestic Violence, Inc.

Excuses for Domestic Violence.

Remember the simple Biblical phrase: Love is kind.

If you need help, you need to ask for it. Don't worry about the embarassment that the one who should love you the most is hurting you. That is an ego thing; help is a survival and healing thing. Go for it, NOW. The guilt is not yours. It belongs to the abuser. Stop carrying it for her/him

There is also help for the PTSD that goes with this. National Center for PTSD.


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