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By Remy Benoit

    Words have power; great power.

    In times of stress, in time of decision making, we can find our way  to clarity of thought through the use of words.

    Watching the news, reading the headline stories can cause much angst and generate feelings of "I am only one person, what can I do?" As Margaret Mead once pointed out, everything of world changing proportions began with the work of a few.          

    We don't always want to do things of world changing proportions. Sometimes we want to clarify things for ourselves. We can find our way through words.  And yet, in changing our personal world, we change the whole world.

    Currently we are being besieged with those who would like to run for President, with news from active combat fronts, with climatic problems, with research for "bunker busters," with AIDS, with a whole list of things tough to make decisions about.

   When these things start to overwhelm, writing it out, writing out your feelings, your visceral reactions to them, can help you clarify your thinking and center you to make rational rather than emotional, decisions.

   A simple question to ask yourself about a candidate for the highest national office is a basic one: would I want this person to babysit my chldren?  Now that seems at first thought perhaps absurd, but is that not what we do when we elect someone to the Presidency? He, and one day she, becomes the care giver for the nation. When you listen to a candidate, what kind of care giving are you hearing about?

   More questions follow.
   We have all learned through life experience what short and long range impact our personal actions have.

   That same kind of perspective needs to be applied to our actions at home, at the work place, and in the national and international arenas. History's biggest mistakes, and concomitant biggest long range problems, come from short range thinking. There are few of us who haven't learned that at a personal level.  

   If you begin with writing a personal Mission Statement, which I have written about before here, you can begin to examine your actions on a daily basis to see whether they are true to that statement. You can determine whether or not an action at the national or international level of your country enhances or detracts from that statement. This gives you a guide as to what your political choices will be. If words or actions, yours or others, that you are hearing unsettle you, write yourself through the emotion to find at what level, and why your "gut" feels that way.

   In determining your inner stand, you will begin to find what position you will take with an outer stand. You will find what your face will be at home, at work, at the national and international level. Then you can ask yourself two questions: is this a face I want to look at in the mirror, a face I can look directly into the eyes of and feel at peace, and;  is this the face I want future generations to look into? A third question naturally emerges. Is this the international face I want the world to see?

   Sit down and read your Constitution. It is your heritage, both hard fought for and blood defended. Are you acting in accord with its basic tenets? Is it being given good caregiving? What is the candidates position on its sanctity? What actions are speaking louder than words?

   Take a walk and look around you. What is your and the candidates position on the preservation and caregiving of the planet? Again, are actions, votes on issues, speaking louder than words being mouthed?

   As you become more attuned to the role of words in your life, you will become more aware of words being spoken at you.  Are they "trigger words," with a history of reactions behind them? Are they what are called in the advertising world, "glittering(and often negative) generalities and stereotypes?" Are they fear words meant to bring on a fear response, a defensive aggressiveness? Are they healing words, that will bring growth if properly implemented?

   As an exercise, go on line and download a candidate's speech and thoroughly examine what emotions it is directing itself to. What conditioned reactions are you having to it? What reactions would you like to have to it given the time to question its assertions, explore its long term impact, and judge its sincerity?

   As this kind of thinking, as this kind of writing, becomes part of your natural activity you will begin to become the enlightened voter, indeed, the enlightened person who lives and votes your Mission Statement.

   All roads to caregiving of all of us begin with each of us.
   History will be our judge.
   Will our legacy be problems or progress?

   As always, it is our choice.

   Choose well.

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